Getting Started · Ruben the Builder · 12K views

How Beginners Build Their First House (Start to Finish)

Ruben walks a first build start to finish from the builder's side: the sequence, the trades, and the decisions that matter.

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Ruben has built 250+ doors, starting as an assistant project manager watching the developer walk away with the profit. This video is the builder’s-side view of a first home, start to finish.

The build sequence

Every home follows the same order: site work and foundation, framing, mechanicals, insulation and drywall, finishes, and final inspections. Knowing the sequence matters because it’s what your draw schedule and milestone payments hang on. Money should follow completed stages, never precede them.

Milestone payment discipline

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Draw schedule tied to the build sequence in writing
Each payment released only after the milestone is verified
Builder fee locked flat after the budget is set
Weekly photo or site-visit record
Change orders in writing with a price before the work happens

Never pay ahead. Your leverage is the checkbook.

The relationship with your builder

A good builder manages every sub so you don’t have to. Your job is to make the budget and schedule visible, verify milestones, and make decisions fast when the site needs one. That’s the whole partnership.

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Common questions

Do I need a license or construction experience to build a house?

No. Ruben has built 250+ homes and Arthur has developed 1,000+ lots without carrying a license between them. You hire the professionals: a drafter, a structural engineer, a surveyor, a builder, a loan officer, and a listing agent. Your job is finding the deal and making the numbers work.

How do I check whether a lot's sewer can support my house?

Find the location, depth, and diameter of the sewer main. Your jurisdiction publishes a table showing the minimum lateral size for a given bedroom or bathroom count, often a 4 inch minimum. For septic instead, confirm the lot is physically big enough and get a perc test to prove the soil will accept it.

How much does a builder charge to run the project?

Cost plus a fee of about 10%. On a $500,000 build that is $50,000 to manage the entire schedule start to finish. That fee has to be inside your underwriting from step two, not discovered later, and it is the reason you do not need a license of your own.

What is the most expensive mistake during construction?

An empty job site. Someone should be working every weekday. A site that sits idle is still accruing interest, and across a six month project that can quietly cost $5,000 to $20,000 in interest alone. The fix is scheduling subs and ordering material ahead of time.

What do I owe in taxes when I sell?

If you lived in it at least 2 of the last 5 years, up to $250,000 of gain is exempt filing single and up to $500,000 filing jointly. If you sell right away you owe capital gains on the profit, and it does not come out of the sale proceeds. It comes out of your bank account at tax time, so set it aside.

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